Hi,
First, you have to look at yourself in the mirror. What do you have
to attract girl? Your hairstyle, your clothes, your body,
etc.
Second, you have to ask yourself why would anyone date you. Give 10
good points about yourself, and try to get rid of 10 bad points of
yourself.
Third, you must be thick skin, and must take initiative. Almost all
girls are shy. So never expect girls to approach you. If they do,
probably you know what type they are.
Fourth, you must create opportunities for you and her to develop
further. For example, taking the same bus or eating at same place
or helping her when she needs the most help. They are emotional
creatures. This is their biggest weakness.
Finally, never give up for any failed attempt. At least you have
tried. There are billions others available when one is lost. Like
what William Hung said, "I have given my best, I have no
regret."
Regards