*whew*
about saving your marriage, i'm not sure what the situation now,
nor can i say whether your husband is having an affair or
not.
but i know this, communication is vital.
1. make your point clear. go straight to the point when talking
with
him.
2. let him have some quiet time after work, tell him when you
would
like to talk to him.
3. don't jump from 1 topic to another as a man can only handle
1
thing at a time
4. thank him for doing things, don't expect that he knows that
you're
thanking him in your heart.
5. use 'will' and 'would' instead of 'can' and 'could', because the
'c'
words question his ability to do something
6. alwayz remember that it takes 2 people to argue but only 1
to
make it up.
7. if you ever argue, don't bring up old grievances, let them
die.
8. alwayz talk and not shout if you have a disagreement.
9. if you argue, attack the arguement and not the arguer - in
this
case, your husband.
10. tell him that you would like to see things from his point of
view
and ask him to explain it to you instead of him saying that
you
don't understand.
11. sometimes when men are frustrated, they will not tell you
wat's
bothering them. they will go back into their 'cave'. give
them
time and they will come out soon. THEN talk to them.
i hope this helps you...
but do tell us why you think that your husband may be cheating on
you. it's not good if we list it out as you may see occurances that
are not happening but you may THINK that it is happening...
thus i, for one, would like to hear your reasons for suspecting him
first.
