I saw this at this blog.
found it to be quite true 
Wives want hubby (other people's sons) to treat them like Queens.
The men must be obedient; attentive to their needs; lavish them
with love and gifts; frequent visits to wife's parents; help with
the household chores; wake up in the middle of the night to feed
bawling baby, tutor the school-going kids, fetch the kids from
school and wife from work ...... etc.
Hubby must remember birthdays, Valentine, Wedding Anniversary,
festive season, our parents' birthdays. If hubby wants wife to
visit his parents or attend his relatives' gathering, she would
give a thousand and one reasons not to. If he doesn't want to visit
her family because it is the 3rd time in a week, she would sleep
with the children! Probably several nights in a row.
When shopping for gifts, she buys expensive stuff for her Mom and
Dad but when it comes to her in-laws, she finds everything too
expensive and tries to convince hubby they really don't need
it.
Hubby is expected to help out in the house. Some are expected to
cook, do the laundry and mop the floor. Because.... "Hello, your
missus here is also working."
Wives asked, "Why can't your parents look after the kids? They are
retired and doing nothing, except sit and chat at coffeeshops all
day."
When it comes to our sons, we expect him not to listen to his wife
too much. Afterall it's Mom who gave birth to him, not his wife. He
has to take care of us, the daughter-in-law's side would have their
own sons to take care of her folks. If they don't have a son, too
bad.
"Why isn't she pregnant yet? If she gives birth to another girl,
divorce her and marry another! Don't bring your kids to me. I have
enough of bringing up my own kids. Taking care of kids is a woman's
job."
Anybody wife or mum also like that? My mum will sometime give the
"dont forget about me when you get married hor" speech to me
