Wen^Chu SG hi , i just wana to enquire do u gals really mind guy’s who is younger than you by only 1 year ?
ntu slacker SG i dont think so in fact if both of u are in e same class... she might be even more impressed by ur intellectual prowess that happened... i can say it for sure. but of course, some girls will run away... cos girls mature faster than men of the same age... so if u are younger,...?
tSuYOshi SG err i dun tink so. they will always haf this "I m older than u theory, i noe more than u, u may be smarter, and on the same lvl of maturity as me or even higher, but u r younger, hence wat i say over rides u" this the kinda of impression i get.
sweetoof SG Erm.. i will mind. I prefer guys who are older than me but not to the extent that he is old enuff to be my dad or something..
meizi SG i prefer older guys too. maybe its because i nv had any ex younger den me and i dun dare to try? i dunno. but this guy one yr younger den me by 1 yr come after me, i can say i was quite freaked out. maybe it depends on whether the younger guy is matured in his thinking…
TrAnQuILiTy SG Of cos mind. Gals tend to mature faster than guys... guys at a younger age... abt early 20s.. tend to tink mor "immaturely"...
narz SG Girls would probably mind. But a woman probably won't. As men and women mature to the age of say towards 30s, the difference in age doesn't become an issue anymore coz both are almost of similar maturity level.
hopy SG i wld think otherwise dear... when 2 person get together, as time goes by, it will lead to marriage, and after tt comes setting up a family (i know tt nowadays tt's not the case already) but then think of this...if u r saying tt girls mind becoz they r not matured enuff...hv it ever occur to u tt women's biological hv to be taken into consideration? if a guy is younger (as we know, guys tends to mature slower-majority but then again there might be the minority, so its subjective), i dun think they wld be ready to set up a family yet while time is ticking away for the gal... so how can u say tt girls mind n not women?
narz SG hi sweetie...i think you may have misinterpreted my opinion... but i see where you're coming from and i do understand and agree on certain aspects... i'm not saying that girls are not matured enough (as compared to women) hence they are not willing to accept younger guys. what i'm saying is that when both guys and gals are of younger age, gals would tend to mind if the guy is younger because it is true that guys tend to be less matured compared to them (which means to say i'm acknowledging the same opinion as you feel too). as for the biological needs of a woman (which would be more pressing as compared to the biological needs of a girl's), my opinion is that the age of the guy doesn't matter as long as he can "perform" and impregnate the woman... in fact, physiologically, a younger man is more suitable for an older woman. as for setting up a family, i would feel again that age doesn't matter. realistically speaking, it's the willingness to commit to each other for life that's important. financial stability is very important too in this society. i see that we adopt different attitudes to the dating and marriage game, hence the different opinions. i won't be thinking so far ahead (marriage and family) when a potential mate comes along hence personally, i do not mind if the person is younger. thanks for sharing your tots with me hopy sweetie.... so do i still stand a chance?
