Originally posted by www:
in most case, yes. i dont like the idea of spoiling someone nor do
i like the idea of shortchanging others.
to relate my comment to how you started off, just look at how some
girls [b]test their bfs' love by judging how
giving-ly they are.[/b]
yeah... some keep saying their bf so good, buy for them this and
that... but seriously, how is that guy going to maintain that for
years to come IF they get married?
my way of thinking is, during courtship the guy shouldn't put on a
false show, and make the girl think he is going to do it all the
time.
he should just be himself and if the girl can't accept the fact
that he doesn't do what she expects, that i think is that the girl
has high expectations and is too materialistic...
anyway, back to topic...
the taker is a bloody stubborn piece of sh!t... what should the
giver do?