Why do you think the term 'nice guy' is always labelled on guys
that can't get dates easily, shunned by most people, poor & is
most of the time ugly?
Why can't a handsome, rich or popular guy be a 'nice guy'? Why must
they be always the 'bad guys'?
Don't you think we are being too shallow? Being labelled as ugly,
poor, idiot = 'nice guys' is also shallow, get over it.
A nice person is one that is confident, well-mannered,
approachable, having a great attitude & helpful. If you have
them, you are a truly nice guy, if not you are just a half-assed
slob pitying yourself & blaming the surroundings for your
downfall...these are called LOSERS.
Ok, there are indeed ugly guys getting dates & being
well-liked, but most ppl just brush them off as 'bad guys'..huh?
Don't you think they are the real ppl pleaser?? (a.k.a nice) If not
why would ppl be flocking to them?
Another point is because we emphasize too much on looks that's why
we always get disappointed. We always delude ourselves that those
good-looking ppl are always up to no good, yes, there are, but not
all, if not those 'nice guys' (see the first sentence for
reference) will have tons of chances already.
Sorry but...a whiny, ugly, poor or having a poor attitude is not a
'nice guy'. They are only using that term to feel better for
themselves, but in reality, they are just plain deluding themselves
& should get down to improve their situation instead of having
a pity party. There should be a new term for those ppl...
LOSERS.
