Manners for Misters
No one wants to be treated with anything less than thoughtfulness.
The guy who exerts himself to consider what would please his date
and then strives to deliver is sure to make a favorable impression.
Here are a few tips to convince your date that she's found her
Prince Charming.
1. Show respect
This is the universal rule of the polite. All other tips are just
permutations of this one.
2. Listen
Pay attention to what she says, and take it to heart. When she says
she's allergic to dust mites, vacuum before she comes to your place
for drinks. If she says she likes Italian food, rent Big Night on
DVD and invite her over for pasta.
3. Be on time
Making her wait implies that her time is less valuable than yours
is.
4. Be generous
I'm not talking money here. Give freely of your praise.
5. Be reliable
A gentleman's word is his bond. If you say you're going to call,
call.
The "F" word
Finally, a word on feminism. Some guys believe that a woman would
be insulted if he held a chair for her. I have yet to discover a
female who wouldn't be charmed by such attentiveness.
When in doubt, ask. Inquiring, "May I get that door for you?" or,
"How about I pay this check and you take the next one?" can head
off a world of misunderstanding.
