Originally posted by M©+square:
Hmm....maybe she's on her way to find someone who really
respect her and treasure her.
Maybe i didn't meet up to her expectations. Whatever i've done is
never enough...never satisfy.
I did ask her what kind of boyfriend i was. and she told me to
really learn how to respect how to respect and treasure my new
gf.
I guess this two areas were the two which she needs the most, and i
have sadly missed it.
Regarding about True Love. I personally feel that those who looks
forward to greener pastures will feel that they have not found
'True Love' yet.
When i looked at my parents and old people...and tried to walk thru
life in those days. It doesn't seem like they have found their true
lov and then got married. It takes Two hands to clap to even make
relationship last.
[b]True Love could be Cheng Qin Yong You or Tian Chang Di
Jou.
My parents commited to the latter one. Did they meet their true
love and got married at a young age of 21?
I don't know about you. I don't know about karma love stuff.
I only know that i lost someone very special and have learnt to
treasure her alot.
[/b]
Well, certain things are beyond our control and all
you can do is open up ur heart and give her your blessings.That
way,both sides will feel better.Since she gave u these golden
words,then u shld remember them and let ur next gf feel
happier...
These two criteria may be the ones u missed this time, but treat
this time like a lesson learnt...and never repeat the same mistake
again...the next time, U won't missed them anymore.
True,when u look over at the "greener pastures" you won't find true
love just yet.However,give urslef more time, lower ur expectations;
Ooh la la... perhaps there's someone who's not up to ur standards
but loves u more than u noe...
To me, I feel that be it "zhi zai hu ceng jing yong you" or "tian
chang di jiu", u shld focus more on reality. wat's the point of
hanging on to a love that is so passionate but won't last long? Do
u wish to have a spouse who won't be there for u thru out ur life
in days of sufferings?My parents once said,you can't survive only
on love,....so one muz be rather realistic... I agree that it takes
2 hands to clap...all things do.To make a relationship last,both
sides have to be doing their part.
But if given a choice,would u rather choose a gal who loves u more
than u love her or vice versa? Perhaps ur parents' case is this? I
would definitely choose one who loves me more than the otehr way
round cuz i'll be happier this way,although i might onli have a
little feelings for him.
For me, I've learnt how to let go...though devastated.If things
can't be forced,then y do it?
