infatuation
in chinese , sS chi xin
It is based totally on physical attraction; often you don't know
much in depth about the person you so called Love.
Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and the
"feeling" than it is in the other person. Real Love is primarily
interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get.
Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person.
True love develops over time between a couple, while infatuation
may be a first step, it must grow through constant, sensitive,
outgoing attention to become lasting true love.