but, before things get out of hand with all the prostitute
comments, hear me out that only God, or whichever religion you
subscribe to, is responsible for everything.
Quoting "Mystery Method"
Put simply, nature has
not designed you for the world in which you live.
Certainly, our physical environment has changed relatively little
over the past one hundred thousand years or so. Then, as now, the
sky was blue, trees were green, sometimes the sun shone, sometimes
the clouds rained. It is our social environment that has changed
dramaticaly. Namely we live in the midst of an unprecedented
population explosion fueled by innovations in technology and
medical science. As a result never in Earth's history have so many
similarly designed human machines existed at any one time.
...
All humans possess a built in motivation to stay away from
people with low or negative social value. In contrast, we
may vastly improve our chances for survival and replication if we
proactively seek out and form partnerships, both sexual and
nonsexual, with those who offer us a high S-and-R value. These
people would include the rich friend who loaned
you money when you were broke, the socially connected acquaintance
who got you into the party, the buddy who protected you from that
bully, the physically fit woman who had sex with you, even the
mentor who taught you how to pick her up. All are said to have high
social value, and we are hardwired to seek alignment with
them.
...
When a woman agrees to align with you sexually, she is agreeing to
trade her replication value for your value. Such
fair arrangements may last many years.
to be truthful, this book has been flamed in a magazine (cant
remember, but i read it during my army days, a few months ago).
however, people still flame others for saying gals are merely 'hos
that want money too. and people still flame others when they say
girls want bad guys. 
who flamed the book? if i recall correctly, it was a woman.
in the words of a hot chick who posts videos on youTube...
"Good guys are s*ckers"
so, why dun yall pray to whichever God you believe in and say a BIG
"THANK YOU"?
for the atheists... i dunno wat u r gonna do, so its really up to
u.