Si|verGer SG if u happen 2 knw a person of a oppo sex but she happen 2 be a butch,would u 1 2 get 2 knw her better n mayb date her? when in e 1st plc u find her abit attractive.. 'll u be tamade patient n sincere 2 win her heart? or wad if ur family member like ur sis or bro is a butch or gay,wad'll u do? 'll u help them or ignore them?
tarigan SG well if she is attractive i wll try winning her heart and try to get her to be my galfren if any of my family member become gay or les i try talking to them or bring to a mental doctor or pray for them
zeth_april SG it's ppl's choice to be butch or gays.. i got no comments.. .. they oso ppl like us mah..
Qoo`~` SG if my sis/bro is a butch/gay.. i will not help them.. coz i dun think they are in "trouble" or "in need of help" there's nothing wrong in being butch or gay.... n moreover they are old enough to decide what they want to be in life.... but if they are in the state of confusion, and is still abit closet, perhaps i might say a few lines and ask them to decide for themselves... if they still chose to be what they want to be, then i will respect them and encourage them to be more pro-active...
^MaRcUs^ SG Well... I had an Ex-gf who was a lesbian... so as for butch dunnoe lehz... but, my philosophy is:... Do wat u want, dun regret! Thus if i really like someone, i wun mind what she is lor... I will sincerely treat and woo her, and hope for the same in return. If my sis/ bro turns into a lesbian or gay, i will be there for them always, keep advicing them. Must help them turn straight ok!!
Devil1976 SG Originally posted by Si|verGer: if u happen 2 knw a person of a oppo sex but she happen 2 be a butch,would u 1 2 get 2 knw her better n mayb date her? when in e 1st plc u find her abit attractive.. 'll u be tamade patient n sincere 2 win her heart? Personally, I don't think there's much wrong with them and don't mind having them as a friend...? or wad if ur family member like ur sis or bro is a butch or gay,wad'll u do? 'll u help them or ignore them? My brother or sister...? If they ask for my help I'll help... If they think there's nothing wrong with them, I'll probably think the same...?
mapp|ezz SG for pple close to mi..i will niam for a while lar..bt the most impt ting is so long they are happy i feel happy for them lor..n of cuz i wunt boycott them or wadever..treat them as per normal... if my sister is a butch..all the more i will niam..together wif my mum..bt i tink its part of growing up bah..cuz she was in an all gers skool..same ting again..she happi lor..
lsd791210 SG usually the older ppl wil mind. but a handful of ppl wil still accept it.gay butch r all fun loving ppl.cheers yo all
the Bear SG dunno... never happened.. but if i happen to like her, friends family member? it's their life to live... i can only love them and be there for them, not interfere or try to live their lives for them
sillyme SG there's no problem in getting to know her as a friend what happens next? let nature takes its course.. don't worry too much about tomorrow..
anfuni SG to me they are still my friends...... perhaps one day i might fall in love with her..... god noes.... this one have to depands on fate....
Si|verGer SG last time i scare my bro will be 1 coz he like nv tok abt gers 1 den e frenxs he hang ard is mostly guys... cant help worry
Inzaghi SG isnt tat obvious??..even if she's straight, also must be pretty den most guys will wanna go over mah... anyway, butch mostly cannot make it one...its her other half which makes guys drool..
Si|verGer SG i got sum frenxs is lesbian den they told me sum of thier frenxs after knw they r lesbian will keep a dist frm them... quite sad rite?