do u have the mindset that "as long as my spouse does not flirt
with other people in front of me, it's ok, because i don't see it,
then i won't get jealous".would u rather not find out what u don't
like to know?or would u rather seek the truth n be hurt by the ones
u love?
but even after u know the truth, u cant do anything, except to have
a big quarrel with that person and quietly accept it.