dude, like i said, it's your life...
if your definition of love is to inflict a lot of misery on her,
her beau and yourself, go for it.. i can't stop you...
every action has a consequence... be sure you are able to shoulder
it.. and don't whine about it...
when the misery becomes too much, again, don't whine about it...
you will get no pity and less sympathy from those whose lives you
may have damaged with your actions...