most girls are very defensive of themselves

Cerebral_Assassin SG

dun u think so?

if not how come they prefer to remain quiet to themselves when talking abt personal issues and also
they'll only start to open themselves up to u after u start to do it first
just feel it kindda weird y many r like that
izzit because they r overdefensive?

the Bear SG

what do you expect with weirdos out there?

and in here?

www SG

in a way, yes.

in fact, everyone (including guys) have their own way of defending themselves when it comes to talking about themselves.

even when u are talking to a chatterbox, they wont simply pour out everything unless u can make them feel comfortable in the first place.

zeth_april SG

issit? Rolling Eyes ..
dun think so Mr. Green

convix SG

they dun wan ppl to think tt they are beri open and loose if they start the conversation….

Xiao Long Nu SG

Cool

mapp|ezz SG

erm...image?

mabbe cuz they duno the other party too well..thus more reserved..

keisha SG

haha, tats exactly my reason for being reserved i called it, not defensive.. Cool

Forever84 SG

I don't really talk alot to people i don't know because well why should i
i agree how can you tell all your personal issue to people

jasmine17 SG

Of cos Wink

^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~ SG

Hmm...
No lahx...
Wat I think is tat the person dunno U long enuff lorx...
Sometimes pple If U interact with a person, for example, 5 times although U noe him/her for 5 years, he/she still wun open up...
Eh...
Wat i mean is eh...
Try this...
Come out with her often...
Then tok to her more...
As time goes by, she'll open up...

choco B SG

It’s abit weird to pour out personal problems to total strangers.

^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~ SG

Agreed...
Wat I meant was she'll open up when U noe her long enuff...
And i meant tat U still contact her and not noe her for 5 years and tok to her only twice~
lolx~

the Bear SG

hi choco Smile

i think sometimes it's better.. as they can give the view of a disinterested party and thus, a really objective view...

^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~ SG

The problem is U still kinda feel weird...
Esp someone U noe for a veri short while...
Not some nice nice movie where gers starts confiding in guys the second time they meet...
lolx~