Try to avoid calling ppl "xiao jie" esp in China.
Cos "xiao jie" has become a common name to use on...... u
know...... that kind of girls.
So in restaurant when u call the waitress, call her "xiao mei"
instead of "xiao jie".
In KTV, feel free to ask for some "xiao jie", and in massage
center, tell them u want "xiao jie" instead of "ji shi".