A guy's qualification is important

bus SG

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I post a question to my colleague once regarding the following scenarios

Guy 1: He can clicked with U, share common interests etc but he is lower in qualification than U (my colleague)

Guy 2: He is much higher qualified than her, do not share many common interests, have differences in thinking, can still click.

Which one to choose? Her answer is Guy 2 because her qualification is HIGHER!!??

Any comments?

NightKnight SG

Nowadays, girls look for people who are rich rich rich! Laughing
Money is a very factor in Singapore. Especially nowadays, hard to find a job.
The best is to chose guys working for the government.

Xiao Long Nu SG

low qualificati0on bt i tink character more important

Parka SG

I will say good luck to them, man. Can stay rich forever?

bus SG

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This is what I observed so far: If a gal is a Diploma holder, high chance she will go for a guy who is a Degree Holder. The minimum acceptable level is a Diploma holder and nothing lower than that.

Any comments?

kohanson SG

what i think is that it doesn’t matters if a guy’s qualification is high or low in choosing a bf, even if he’s just a O level holder, he can start a businedd by himself and even earns 5 – 10k a mth ..

Parka SG

so money is the overall win all. Twisted Evil

Indulgence SG

If I've got higher qualifications, I call the shots. Cos he knows I can leave him anytime and I can survive on my own. But no point also.

No $$ will result in financial difficulties in the family. Once $$ becomes a problem, how much he loves you, you'll still have conflicts. So at the end of the day, money rules.

So I pick Guy 2

bus SG

Sad

So can I conclude that the TITLE of this thread posted by me is RIGHT after all?

If a guy is of lower qualification, high chance he will be left on the shelf? Hpow realistic it is our society had became that a person can only love a person if he/she possess something -- How fake is all these so call LOVE as I find that all these are superficial.

How fake human beings have became.. sigh...

duotiga83 SG

i am mr left/wrong Rolling Eyes

bus SG

Rolling Eyes

The governemnt did foresee that in future there will be more and more

1. Single, highly educated gals
2. Single, Lowly educated guys

roaming the streets. How sad will that be Sad

What will u do if your qualification is low & wanted to look for a partner?

Si|verGer SG

eh qualification dun mean anytin lor.. but e guy must hv basic qualification lar at least mayb pass his sec n get a n/o cert....
but more impt is.. is he willing to work hard ant?
if a guy no matter hw high e qualification he has but he is lazy to work just like to snake ard do u still 1 2 choose him? Rolling Eyes

Si|verGer SG

since u said abt ger choosing guy hv lower qualification den herself den do u guys mind ur gf/wife hv higher qualification den u? Rolling Eyes Mr. Green

www SG

so what are the possible alternatives?

guys gotta study harder to attain higher qualifications, even after 2-2.5 years in national service?
guys finding girls who has lower qualifications overseas?

coz we cant stop local girls from getting higher qualifications, can we? Laughing

Kevin-1982 SG

For marriage,sg gals of coz go for financial security.U tink the gal want to be with u for the rest of ur life is u grad from ITE and earn only 1-1.5k per mth? Now sg so expensive to live in,need $ for this and that,Then next time got kids,need $ for their education,U 2 will struggle to survive man! Unless u do business and make a lot of $,with low edn level,it is impossible to earn a lot of $.

Bottom line:A guy's qualification and concomitantly,his pay check are very important factors that gals consider. Wink

Forever84 SG

Go for guy2 la
no money no marriage
sure argue over money matters
whats the point
Imagine ur wife earn more money than you
like 'xiao bai lian' likedat

Si|verGer SG

think best alternatives is to ask government to shorten e ns period... mayb 1 1/2 yr?
if not lower e std of living..

Ananya SG

Personally, i feel that the past does not matter as much, if the guy is willing to do something to show the gal tt he is willing to work towards a better future for the both of them, be it further studies, working very hard etc.

A guy's qualifications does not matter as much as his willingness and desire to work towards a better life.

kopiosatu SG

CMI, the ger is a money grabber Confused

Båseline SG

Sadly, it's a vicious cycle.

Each of his/her own I guess. If you throw these questions to guys, it'll be alot different I guess. If the relationship is based on Superficial means then I'm afraid it's not gonna last very long.

Isn't it beautiful to see couples working hard for each other...be it in work and relationship than everything going with the flow? Confused