A guy's qualification is important

last SG · 2003-06-17T19:48:32+00:00

Sadly, it's a vicious cycle. Each of his/her own I guess. If you throw these questions to guys, it'll be alot different I guess. If the relationship is base...

kopiosatu SG

i trying very hard to see Laughing

bus SG

Sad

If everyone cannot think and just follow what the other is doing, isn't he/she has already lost himself/herself in the society (Shi Qu Zhi Wo and Bei Jian Zhe Bi Zhi Zhou).

If the gal is choosing the guy based on qualification because

1. she wants a better life
2. she wants to enjoy all the material comfort etc
3. She want to feeling she has "face" in front of her friends/relatives
3. she wants someone to share the burden of the loans

Well, let me tell U the truth: Guys also mind if a gal's income is low (since U gal can do it, how come we guys cannot -- no offend here)
as we guys are the natural breadwinner & U just thinks that the loans that the 2 take up after marriage. Think about it -- U will feel scare.

Like one of my friends had mentioned to me: OK, we guys possess all the conditions that U gals are looking for. Do U gals have the shape/figures ?? Do U have it (no offend here but it serves as a wake up call to those gal who think it is "Li Shuo dan ran"/reasonable that guy should so and so.... I shall tell U straight away U gals must also chip in. Give a thoughts to it.

These are the real reasons why people prefer to remain single nowadays - not by choice but BEING FORCED BY CIRCUMSTANCES. Thanks

Forever84 SG

Like i said
if you got the "liao" u want who also can

sh|nY_BoY SG

oh man..i hate this.. study study get the cert then got job...so stressful..no cert = no job.. arr...head going burst one day...if u n the her dont match each other.but she just be with u..becos u`re higher qualification..i think she is more after your money....its best to find a true love.. that love each other..qualitfication isnt so important...but hai....guys must really work hard .. headahce sia... Crying or Very sad

bus SG

Very Happy

So in this case, if a guy has high qualification, he does have a better choice of gals?

It seems a guy's qualification is an "selling items" among gals

[gEr]^_^ SG

eh... i agree that for most gers they will chose a guy that have a higher qualification den her. keke... but character, feeling and communication is also important lo... keke....

Well.... if a guy have a lower qualification den the ger but he is willing to work hard etc... and have the learning attitdue like the 7pm show, Ah Cheng. I m sure he stand a chance.

=)

anti.flirt SG

hai.. typical singapore gal confirm chose perfect guy to married loh... but there are some rare case who don't mind Confused

anti.flirt SG

Ah Cheng Shocked very rare case Exclamation

abterror SG

then wait for gals to woo us guys lo......
as far as i am concern, tat also has to see wat kinda gal u toking about.
the more value they have in terms of education,beauty, experience, high cut ect.
the price to get them is also more expensive.
it is just like buying things from the shelf. but sometimes if u are lucky, u might be able to get a good one at a low price.

"ren wei cai si
niao wei shi wan"

dont u agree?

Forever84 SG

Wth are you saying
are you trying to say girls are smarter than us

Transmission SG

as to the topic..

IF i got a degree ...and a girl fall for me because of this cert,
I will give her that cert and tell her to get lost ...

Spear SG

/ clap clap clap......

Bravo.. Well said.

Doenitz SG

Will sg gals marry a guy earning 1-2k for the rest of his life?

bus SG

Sad

That why some guys really give up on local gals & went Vietnam to look for a wife!

Do U know that the image of lcoal gals is actually not good among us guys? There is a forum which I went to always criticised about local gals. Some compare local gals to china Babes & said that local gals belong to class 3 standard (meaning low standard in terms of looks) of china Babes!

I feel that the causes of all these are

1. Local gals feel that they are "Made in singapore" products so it must be high end product as the country always come 1st in some areas at International level and so become proud and self-centred.

2. Received equal chance of education, as a person studied higher, his/her ambition becomes stronger

3. Financial stable and so becomes less tolerance to the opposite sex and feel there is no need to get married and rather remain singles if he/she cannot meet the right ones.

Any comments?

7tHeAvEn SG

haha i dun think so

abterror SG

well, i believe a guy goto show the gal his "ability" b4 she will commit to him.
just like when a male bear wanna mate, he will have to fight to win the other male bear.
noone is perfect and our strength lead to our flaws.
so we have to marlet ourself in our strong points.
ppl are like jigsaw puzzle, not everyone suit anyone.
and it takes two hands to clap.
and lastly sometimes we focus so much in wat we want till we submerge ourself in our imaginative world and forget tat hardly such person exist.
our personal differences and methods of handling situations also has to do with it.

as far as i am concern, nothin is absolute.
we goto have dreams but goto face reality at the rite moment.
esp when gers are young they have their youth and time to slowly choose wat is best for them.

"when the demand and supply meet, it is when 2 become one."
Rolling Eyes

Parka SG

To add on.

People will become choosy as a result.

Those low educated would probably don't mind highly educated ones. But then, there will definitely be unease, conflict and a strange feeling, not to mention talks from other people.

As for those highly educated ones, the same problems arise. And interestingly, education is the cause of it.

Parka SG

Didn't someone mention this before?

the cert or degree is just another selling point.

The win all is the amount of money one makes. The degree doesn't guarantee that one makes money.

www SG

haha. in most cases, things go up and will never come down.

www SG

true love? *scratch head*

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