I have just finished watching this show just a less than 1hr ago
from Channel 8.
The title of the show is "The Cheaters"
There was some rules being mention inside the show and was repeated
which made me think of it.
Some of it are quite true..before I forget it again..here goes
nothing..
In the society: there are 2 types of people..the good and the
bad..
since this show is about cheaters naturally i'll talk about the bad
people.
Theme: Cheaters.
Here are some myths and simple truths of cheats or people who
commit crimes:
Truth:
1) Cheaters are smarter than average person (if not how are they
gonna cheat others, just that they abuse their intelligence in the
wrong direction)
2) Cheats/ Criminals are more discipline than a lot of people (if
not how can they plan and hold delay their gratification whereby a
lot of people seek instant gratification)
3) Criminals often commit a crime against their will, and do so
when only left when no choice. Sometimes first-time offenders
commit crime because they can't get what they want. (at times it's
that simple thing, but not many people understand how a small
little issue (like lack of love, attention or money) will lead to
the start of the rise of a new yet-to-be-criminal.
When the minority of people who have experienced failed
relationships and catch other half cheating on them, then when not
handle properly, there's a chance for these minority people to
become the next rapist/killer/manslaughter cases.
The lack of Attention will lead to:
Theft in youngersters should teenagers can't get what money can't
buy from parents - family bonding and communication thus kids of
either rich/poor families resort to theft/stealing to gain
attention and get the thrill. With each successful attempt, they
will feel good in certain ways thus increasing their confidence
which they lack in everyday life..
As for lack of money: Depending on different situation, it will
lead to different levels of crime seriousness.
Myths:
1) Criminals are often those un-educated people.
2) Criminals (Cheaters included) are just wants money.
3) Educated people seldom commit crimes. (Which has being proven to
be false)
Now back to the topic:
What I have learnt from the show:
Cheaters don't trust their partners
Cheaters don't have real frens 'they are only making use of each
other)
Cheaters will not put their real feeling in when getting to know
anybody.
One of the cheaters' method of succeeding to cheat is to act and
put in sincerity and 'real feelings' to cheat the victim's
cash..
When the show was coming down to an end, than I realised that I've
learnt something which can related to some of the cases of people
being cheated..
How to cheat
people: There are quite a few organizations
out-there in Singapore to date still cheating people's
money..
1st - Act Confident
2nd - Try means and ways to associate themselves with either the
govt or give the public a false impression that by being in the
building which is build the govt and related departments to work,
then they are safe..
3rd - Will try to make themselves look presentable (but aren't
merticulous..)
4th - Try to infulence people's thinking, not leaving any time for
the person to think; using pressurizing methods/hard-selling to
push the victim into signing the document/agreement
5th - Make use of peer pressure and environment to cheat people or
claim that they earn a lot from doing these and that, but no proof
as verification nor sufficient knowledge to discuss and answer to
the questions thus they don't leave a chance for the victim to
think.
How Not-To-Be
Cheated:
1) Ask for proper documents to check if he/she is a legal
salesman/saleswoman (example if selling insurance, as for
liscense)
2) Read the Agreement and think over it carefully, don't submit to
pressurizing /hard-selling tatics..
3) Cross-reference information with Govt and relevert
channels.
4) Put on our thinking hat..Do we really deserve such a good
opportunity to earn so much? (if you think you deserve it; partly
due to experience con-person knowing how to play around with
emotions)
If it's really our turn to flip our destiny to be rich very fast,
yet without doing a lot of things..than most likely you are already
being cheated..but you don't know..
Victims only realize what happen when the name of the criminal has
being Shown Clearly via Media means.
Perhaps some people who have either being cheated or was cheating
people might want to share their experience..
