Okay... if any partner were to look for such criterias like
those mentioned above. (i.e. holds a great job, comes from good
schools, owns a Lexus, 4 to 5 Cs... etc..) This list will go on, if
a person starts to be judgemental about things.
You see, relationship is not about what the person have or does not
have. Love is not materialistic, and it's so foolish to just look
at the status alone.
No one is perfect. A person can be high in status but low in
character, or a person can also be good in character, but not so
high in status wise. So, it depends on how we judge others.
HOWEVER, when it come to loving a person, that will be a different
situation altogether.
If you see a couple who got together just because of status or
wealth, then in time, they will soon find themselves drifting from
each other, if there's no love in their relationship anymore.
But to see a couple - one is rich; has status, the other is simple
- loving each other for a long time... that's exceptional.
After so much of talking, it all boils down to some conclusions: If
you TRULY love somebody, that love must be unconditional. *&*
When choosing a partner, choose wisely without unnecessary
judgements.
Last but not least, love is humble. If you "love" a person because
he/she is rich or high in status just because u think u'll lose
face if u go out with someone who is contradicting to your
"criteria", then, it's your problem that you have to deal with lo.
it's your pride that u have to deal with. Having ego or self-pride
is okay, but Pride itself will kill a relationship, a marriage or a
friendship.
