arr yes indeed, getting OT liow but this is a GOOD OT!
ahhaha
let's bring it back to b4 marriage, but on the same
wavelength.
i remember when i was much younger, i'd chase skirts becos it was
the thing to do. it was great to have someone's hand to hold
walking down the mall, watching movies and to do that i needed to
chase them.
so chase i did, and got caught up in the infatuation of it all,
only to be at a total LOSS when i did "get" the girl, becos in the
frenzy of chasing her, i never thot of wat i would do or wat would
happen should i really "attain" her hand (pun intended!).
that was then, of course now it's different. but the point is
illustrated isn't it? many get into a reln and then ask "now how?".
it's like the chase is over, and now there's no more
"goal"....
maybe in line with this topic, i could comment that the goal isn't
to to meet someone with all the criteria we list, but rather HOW
we're gonna live with them in harmony and how we would treat them
since they are supposed to be our special person.
