DeadPoet SG Have you ever came across this before? You really dislike his/her best friend who also feel the same way for you. So should you pretend pretend that you like him/her?
Faye Valentine SG dun like dun like lor i treat pple like my mirror reflections, if u think i am a nasty person to you, u are probably nastier
foxwalk SG eh, my bf disliked my ex-good fren, now i know why.. sometimes tho i dun really agree with his frens' ways of doing things, jus let them be. after all they are soemtimes there for him and that's what counts i think/
ShrodingersCat SG will be cordial. i mean generally am cordial to people i don't consider my friends and cos respect the hubby. doesn't have to go out of my way to show i dont like them or be cold to them.
xking SG if i dun like i'll let her noe ..no point hiding la.. but then, my view of one person may change also cos i may be guilty of being pian jian at time de...so communicate more loh.
mistyblue SG exercise some emotional labour when you're around them loh... even siblings can also don't like each other... so explain to your girl that you are not comfortable with her friends as you don't expect her to be chummy with yours ...
@ngel*_* SG dun like dan dun like lor... no nid to act... jus like my ang, he dun like my best frd... n my best frd noes oso...
ShrodingersCat SG depends on context ba. i expect my partner to stand up for me, shouldnt need me to stand up for myself. Unless the negative remarks creating a rift for MY relationship with my partner, guess I will just ignore the person.
