true, that it's easier for women. as for me, i could be very
stubborn when it comes to my choice. no matter how bad my parents
dun like him, if i still wannabe with him, my parents cannot do
anything. bcos the more they say NO ! the further i'd go. and they
know it well.
but once..my mum told me that she prayed to God that she wanted me
to broke up with my bf...and not long after that..i broke up. and
yes, my parents were rite. some of my exs (that they dun like) are
exactly (even worse) as they predicted (not suitable for my
daughter). and my parents..although they dun like him (hate him to
the roots), they still dun show their feeling to him. i must thank
my parents for that. for not making my exs felt terrible infront of
them. and i must kicked my exs ass for acting terrible infront of
them.
as for my bf..well..i told him if they dun like me, they must have
good reason for that. and u better ask them what it is. bcos i
never wanna break family ties. i'd rather walk away fm him, rather
than he has to pick between his family or me 
and as for parents... i know that they want the best for their
children. and they are welcomed to give comments and suggestions.
but i still dun understand why they still (sometimes) force us to
follow their order. it's us the one who's in the r/s, not them. why
do they have to make us suffer ???? WHY ?????? oh well..maybe we
know one day when we become parents. i just hope that i can be as
nice as my parents.