Wat Do Girls really want from a guy?

last SG · 2004-12-22T21:11:11+00:00

Guys are so desperate, as long as a deer is in sight.....the charge instinct..... That is why Singapore Girls are spoilt rotten.... And many are still left o...

Ryan99 SG

ok... Since most of you says that I'm wrong to assume that Singaporean women have changed for the worst, then can anyone tell me what do Singaporean women want from guys?

Very Happy I've got my fair share of my ex telling me if i do certain things, i will please her, but when i do it, it turns out to be the opposite.

Ryan99 SG

EASY ....... DIFFICULT

Easy is to get a place is someone's address book.
Difficult is to get a place in someone's heart.

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others
Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes

Easy is to talk without thinking
Difficult is to refrain the tongue

Easy is to hurt someone who loves us.
Difficult is to heal the wound...

Easy is to forgive others
Difficult is to ask for forgiveness

Easy is to set rules.
Difficult is to follow them...

Easy is to dream every night.
Difficult is to fight for a dream...

Easy is to show victory.
Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity...

Easy is to admire a full moon.
Difficult to see the other side...

Easy is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult is to get up...

Easy is to enjoy life every day.
Difficult to give its real value...

Easy is to promise something to someone.
Difficult is to fulfill that promise...

Easy is to say we love.
Difficult is to show it every day...

Easy is to criticize others.
Difficult is to improve oneself...

Easy is to make mistakes.
Difficult is to learn from them...

Easy is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it.

Easy is to think about improving.
Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action...

Easy is to think bad of others
Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt...

Easy is to receive
Difficult is to give

Easy to read this
Difficult to follow

Easy is keep the friendship with words
Difficult is to keep it with meanings.

LeftBallBigger SG

$$$..dat all..Believe in The Left…..

Ryan99 SG

Don’t think so Neh… not only $$.. There must be something more that a woman want…

av98m SG

But $$$ is the first minimum requirement.

shitake SG

Care & Concern Smile

Ryan99 SG

Haven’t you heard of girls who will love a guy against all odds and regardless of whether a guy is successful. rich, educated or not? so there must be something that a girl want…

yandaokia76 SG

good fark!!!!

CyanSupra SG

$$$

foxwalk SG

someone who understands or who would want to understand us
someone whom i care abt understanding
someone with whom i can talk abt anything under the sun with
someone who is loyal and faithful
someone who is expressive with his love and thoughtful
someone who is sweet at least sometimes and gives surprises
someone who likes to talk with me and finds me attractive and whom i find attractive

it's what love is about, isnt it Question

Ryan99 SG

But when that someone arrive, will you add more to your list?

tliqun SG

now gals don't care abt this kind of sh!t Mad

Poopie-Head SG

A slave. for life.

yandaokia76 SG

girls now want good fark good lick!!!

foxwalk SG

not really. i find it difficult to find someone one can really connect with, and where both find the other attractive.

if the list increases, it'd be more of a cse of wanting the best for each other, such as if we both want the other to put in his/her best in his/her work so that we have a future to work togther towards..

it's very hard to find someone with whom i can connect with, and i am determined to hold on!

Ryan99 SG

Girls want guys to give in to them but guys cannot become wimps
Girls want guys to show authority but guys cannot become MCP.
Girls want guys to shower attention on them but guys cannot be too irritating.
when you don't call them, they say you neglect them.
When you do call them, they say you very irritating.

When is the fine Line drawn???? Question

Ryan99 SG

Looks like you are the last of your species... an understanding and matured person... Good luck in finding your soulmate... I'm also determined to find mine too, even if I've been hurt countless times... Very Happy

foxwalk SG

give in in some things, such as where to eat
show authority to others, such as being assertive
true on the calling them
the last one, girls dun mean what they say in this case.

if you can so easily understand a girl, where is the courting game? a relationship is NOT a math problem waiting to be solved. it takes a lifetime to understand each other. and a minute to recognise who are the idiotic posters here. (i dun mean u but look at some idiotic and not to mention, offensive to women posts there are here by the guys)

Ryan99 SG

I get the point..the art of keeping love alive in a relationship is to be mysterious and play the guessing game?

By the way, I kinda like chatting with you cos you gave such good and matured answers to the queries I had... Thanks

foxwalk SG

Originally posted by Ryan99:

[b]I get the point..the art of keeping love alive in a relationship is to be mysterious and play the guessing game?

By the way, I kinda like chatting with you cos you gave such good and matured answers to the queries I had... Thanks [/b]

you're welcome. i sense that yours is a genuine concern rather than some nonsensical statements made by some looneys here, hence i contribute meaningfully as well.

i have already found my soulmate and i'm very happy to have him.

there are however some materialistic people out there. i know one particular one, who wants "good looks, rich, smart, treats her well". the connection between two minds is not even mentioned.

you will find love one day. you will find what you look for. if you look for the wrong things, you will find them too. and sometimes cupid does strike when you least expect it.

Smile

cheers.