you don't look hard enough.. just scratch the surface and you'll
find them...
i think it's the same for ladies too... "too nerdy, too plain, not
hunky"... and nice guys are rejected and given the brush-off, never
to be thought of again...
all the while these same ladies stare starry-eyed at the
"dangerous-looking" heartbreaker with a reputation of being
cruel... get attracted like moths to a flame, get themselves singed
and then suddenly "all men are bastards"...
see the posts in AA... seems that many ladies agree that "nan ren
bu huai, nu ren bu ai"...
tragic