my fren's mum also! and they're a growing batch of parents who
are moving with times and letting their kids do wat they wan to do
and support them in watever they wan to do. so xin fu!
i think we'll be like them when we grow up, when we become parents,
though it's not safe to say anything concrete at this point.
but
the thing is, they don't change wans!
to them, they think that they noe ur bank acct, they noe where u go
etc, it means they care and can hao lian their closeness with their
kids if their frens ask. but it's about their upkeeping their image
and not lose face to others, and never about their kids. and it's
fcuking invasion of privacy! 
