I understand and know most girls have such thinking.
I would totally disagree that a skillful guys is one who fools
around.
For me, I gain my experience when I was in a 3+ years relationship
and she taught me alot and I taught her alot too, coz we were
totally open to making love and we discuss about it too. Like what
we like, what our fantasies are, etc etc...We explore together and
grow together in terms of sexual experience.
I dun sleep around at all....coz I dun like Having Sex, I prefer
Making Love.