Blame the guy who strayed, not the girl who tempted him. And
don't lump all china girls into 1 stereotype, please, just because
u met 1 bad egg. You sound very spiteful, but I'll give u the
benefit of the doubt here and take it that u've already done alot
to make your marriage work. If u still love your hubby and haven't
exhausted all means, I suggest you talk to him 1st.
If u really plan to divorce, have u already hired a PI? I'd do that
if I were you, to protect your interests. Must have both parties in
those photos in compromising position.
Lastly, try to keep as cool and calm as possible. The cool-headed,
reasonable strategist makes the best moves and gets the most help
from sympathetic people.
Gd luck.
