First thing first....we got to be clear on a few things. Please
take all comments constructively. It is nothing personal, okie?

Decisions are not soley made by the 3 of us. Our decisions are
based on discussions and feedbacks from the team. As the team's
manager, I am trying to execute the decisions and strategies with
the best of my abilities. Thus I continuously try to solicit
feedback from all of you during half time and after the game. If
you say nothing, I will take it that you are happy or you have
nothing to say. Another thing is; even if there are changes to be
made. It has got to be done at the right time. This change, that
change.....in the end, all confused. I try to do it as it comes. If
you tell the players 1001 instructions, you will have him walking
off rather than enjoying and playing the game. 
Please also bear in mind that decisions are not easily made or
executed as it seems. Decisions would mean compromising other
players' playing position, maybe playing time, the way we go about
rotating players, very specific instructions on our style of play
etc. If any one thinks it's easy, pls fill my shoes (this is said
on a lighter note). Decisions may benefit some but may cause others
to feel uncomfortable. I am trying to strike a balance thus I
always check to know if all of you are comfortable playing in your
postions. Try not to tell me "anything", more difficult for me in
certain sense. 
For example, I appreciate Lancer's direct approach as he told me
that he hopes that he can stick to only the striker's position, I
respect that. Boon, I will also look into your suggestion to play u
in the centre. In fact, I know you can play in the centre thru' a
few matches previously. Yourself, Ang and Bara fitted nicely in the
centre for the 4-3-3 formation as well. Khai, I dun think that you
are boastful but all I can say is that how you feel or perform
during the game does affect the whole morale of the team (I mean
it!!). Can you tell me what position you really want to play? You
told me that you dun mind trying out the left as you felt that you
were not effective in the centre. I did the change. However, you
did not seem comfortable during the last game and when approached,
you said that it was one of your OFF days?? For old times sake, I
need you to be more transparent with me. Bro, tell me in the face
if you want to, I juz want to know wat the hell you are thinking so
that I can try my best to see to the arrangement, can??
This goes the same for all other players as
well. 
My 1st priority for the team is try to ensure that every single
player plays a fair and enjoyable share of the game which is why we
set up the team in the first place....PASSION. We will play to win
but if it's becomes too much about winning only, I dun think we
will enjoy the game as much. I personally like to play the whole
game myself but I will rather sub myself out than take any one of
you out. Fun, fun, fun.......

Changes with a certain style of play does not mean that we will see
improvement so quickly. Khai and Boon, I personally also like the
4-3-3 formation which I feel suits us but we need time to adapt.
For last week's game, I started with 4-4-2 cos I knew that the
opponents was good before the game started. I wanted to play safe
in the midfield area by playing 4 rather than 3. Eventually, they
had about 3 play makers who took on our 4 so easily. In the end, we
got to pull back one more to midfield. For this week's coming game,
I would like to try the 4-3-3 formation again but bear in mind that
the field is much bigger. We might not cope that easily but we will
try. I will also have very specfic instructions for the centre mid
from now on. I think we lack communication and discipline in the
centre. 
Ah Boon, I'm glad you are sharing so much online. Your suggestions
will be taken into consideration. 
Russ,as what I have told you, I fully understand what you are
saying about specific instructions but let's put it this way, let's
get our fundamentals right like marking, corners kicks and
throwings before anything else. At this point of time, we can give
some simple instructions on the style of play but not too many and
not too complex ones. 
And yes, I agree, with our "cute" home gorund, we cannot play by
the flank.....one pass and it's out to neverland. 
One last thing, when everyone gives me different suggestions and
opinions, it's difficult to come up with a decision that makes
everyone happy but of course, I will try to come up with a
"Win-win" situation. 
Khai, try not to miss this week's game, you will regret missing
playing on a nice ground. I'm sure we can play some beautiful
soccer this Sat (after all the hedious condition at home ground).
After our game, I will be continuing to play the 5pm game with my
church team on the same ground. That's how much I enjoy playing
there!!
See
ya guys this Sat. Cheers.