dun take things too seriously. it isnt.
attached can break
married can divorce
remarry, still can divorce
got children, can send to orphanage
countless couples say "i luv u forever". but how many are actually
TOGETHER forever? 
its a game. some games are harder than others... and some stages in
the game are meant to test your current abilities. difficulty
depends on how desirable the game is to men.
hint: make her "feel" good, because that is how women make
decisions.
it'd help if u have a lot more confidence.
due to the primitive nature of the human mind, because we havent
evolved much from our cave men ancestors, females like alpha males.
not bloody inconfident POS losers.
alpha males are leaders of men (turn on) who lead (turn on) and
make decisions (turn on).
NOT
inconfident (turn off), cannot make decisions (turn off), that all
the men make fun of (turn off).
no one wants to be with a loser. can u imagine wat her frens would
say in front of her and behind her back? 
if u r feeling so insecure at the moment, i think u will lose this
game for being too possessive. but its ok.
pick up a few more games and play. once u r more confident, u can
go back to this game. because nothing is forever;
just because she said no the other time doesnt mean she'll say no
the next time after u've improved.
in the end, it doesnt matter at all.