Here is a real life account:
I have got to know this girl, named L through my best guy-friend,
named A. Girl L used to be his girlfriend, but have already
broken-off for years, yet he is still interested to get her back.
My initial impression of her ain't good and definitely not a girl I
would be interested.
However, as we got to know each other better, a bond developed
since we can really "click" well. Knowing her to be a flirt, I
never did have any intention to go after her at all. But fate has
it the other way, she was hot over me, calling me everyday, keep
asking me to meet her, etc etc. And in the end, I give in and
started a relationship with her. But at the same time, after my
best guy-friend found out, I lost our friendship.
Well...there is a long story to continue but I will stop here...I
lost both, friendship with my guy-friend, and relationship with
girl L. Now, girl L and I are still close friends, friends who
understands each other really well. And I also found out, she was
interested in me initially because of the fact that no guys have
ever given her the cold shoulder I gave her, no guys have ever not
look at her, admire her beauty.