To the guys:
If all you want is to have some fun and enjoy her company. Who
cares whether she is attached or not, right? Just have fun. Don't
even need to ask her. She don't say, you don't care.
If you are looking for a serious gf, you have to be frank with her.
If she say she is single when in fact she is 2-timing you. Then
good luck to you as you know her real character before it is too
late.
To the girls who want to "pretend" to be single:
If the guy is also out having fun only, it is OK. But if the guy is
those very serious types please be honest with him. I have a lot of
experiences of wanting to be serious with girls and they welcome
all the attention, then when I make a move....., whoa lau, they say
they got bf. Very disappointed and sometimes hurt.
To the guys again:
Overall, girls like to be "chased" and "wooed". It is their nature.
Don't blame them. They want to be a pretty flower, with a lot of
"bees" buzzing around them. They cannot change. Therefore, as guys,
you should be careful.
For example, even when my current gf is already very serious with
me, there are guys who are after her... and she say that they are
just friends. I know that she will not be interested in them but
yet she did not "reject" them. Got one even buy breakfast drink for
her every morning. When you ask them, they will say,,,, "He want to
do that want but.... I didn't ask them"....