This is real life, we always put our best image in front of
other ppl, we are all guilty of this. for example, you like to dig
your nose every minute, will you show that to someone you like ?
after sometime, cannot hold back liao, so you dig your nose in
front of her ... suddenly she said I though he is a guy with good
personal image , but now ...
This is too common, that's why after you get married, even you have
dated each other for 30 years, suddenly you realised you don't
recognise who you marry, who she beat up the husband when before
marriage she is like a little lamp. ( of cos she noes, if she
reveal her true self, who will marry her in the first place)
We never see the true self of the other person, juz that we see
more and more things when we get closer, even after 50 years of
marriage, both couples are still learning about each
other