age gap

huishan SG

1st q:hi does anyone know isit ok for a girl to like and love a guy younger than her? or the girl younger than the guy? 2nd q:hi iam having this problem now...i have a gal friends before...and we treat both of us as a close and best friends...but suddenly one day she stopped contact me or message me or ask me go out shopping with her..think maybe got some mistaken and misunderstood...and we lost contact till 4 years already..and that day when i was going out shopping...i saw her mother on the street..and she talking to me and say that her daughter is sick and she taking leave and stay at hm take a rest.and she tell mi that because of she working stress and her boss always scold her..thats why now she dont want to contact all her friends includ me..and she also change her hp num alr.because she dont want all her friends to find her..but her mother got give me her house phone to ask me call her daughter and chat with her again and ask her go out shopping with me..but now i really dont know want to call or not.because i 4 years never saw her never talk to her and never go out with her already...so can anyone help mi.can give mi some comment and advices..whether what should i do nw..should i contact her again? or just forget that day she intro mi a factory job..and she ask mi to wait for her outside the taxi stand.but end up she never appears? but i call her and she hang up my phone?

newcomer SG

at present, you should just call her. she’d be appreciate it.

de_middle SG

i assume ur a guy.....its ok for guys to fall for older girls assuming that age gap isn't above 4years.....most imptly, the girl must be fine with it.

would be better if u have gotten her HP nbr, send her a msg rather than calling. but dun expect a reply Very Happy

Darkness_hacker99 SG

1) Age gap is not a big problem if it's not too wide.

2) Very confusing leh. Can you use paragraph next time? *headache*

huishan SG

hehe by the way sorry for my messy writing..but at least u all understand the 2 question what iam trying to ask…aniway thanks alot…thanks for all of ur comment and advices to me..i will try to call her..but i no chance to msg her already.as she already change her contact number…

huishan SG

and thanks u all answer me another question of the age gap relationship…because one of my gal friends..she always got younger guy like her.but she is older..so iam also not sure.thats why i ask all of you this question.and ask all of you give me some advices…