girls cannot take too much initiative, or else the guy will not
have enough respect for her. Unless she's the sort who really takes
charge and manages to turn the guy into a poor henpecked boy.
I would tell the both of you to give up 
one has waited so long for someone
if she really wanted something out from you, i think she would've
committed long ago
the rest are just excuses
don't think too much or you'll end up with possibilities that don't
even exist
i know it's difficult to just give up now because after all u've
hung on for 3 years, what's a little while more right?
but you're still young lah, so do whatever you want.
fifi ley... fifi don't wait for him lar... keep your options open!
we have expiry date de 
