There is a lot of governmental and societal pressure on
Singaporean singles to get married (early) and have as many
children as possible. What is seriously lacking in such initiatives
is objective sharing of reality in our modern society, that results
in many unhappy marriages and unhappy children born in such
families.
There should be a objective survey to show clearly the happiness
level of married couples based on the number of years married. The
results will automatically put off many singles from tying the knot
too early. 
Seriously, after the
‘distractions’ of career and bring up children are gone, many
middle-age couples finally realise that they REALLY can’t stand each other anymore.
The ideal situation is for singles to heal their personal
emotional/life issues first, and learn to have self-love and
feeling complete before making that long-term commitment with
another person. Two people with their own share of unresolved
issues coming together, and suppressing those combined issues for
decades is a recipe for eruption of major conflicts in later
years.
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