How do u reject someone w/o hurting their feelings?

last SG · 2003-04-14T13:46:29+00:00

I dnt think there is any way you can reject a person's feelings for you, without hurting them to some level.

shaunlaw SG

AGREE!!

Seshiro SG

Point taken..it is more to the degree of damage incurred

zacken99 SG

avoid avoid avoid Cool

Seshiro SG

There is no ending if there was nothing to begin with in the first place..LOLx Mr. Green

Si|verGer SG

i agreed but sumtimes even bcum frenxs e frenship isn't e same like last time

Si|verGer SG

Laughing din knw u oso like to tease me...

boy in blues SG

find out exactly what kind of person the to-be-rejectee hate the guts of most. Duplicate that personality. do a good job and it works on most ppl most of the time, except on me. Laughing

Si|verGer SG

like dat sure no frenship liao unless u v tulan her then no so bad...

Xiao Long Nu SG

i tink best is quickly reject the person if u dn like her dn drag and lead her on...both aso nt in gd position...reject ppl gt many methods...

tink best is tell him or her straight u nt interested and explain tat u still wana maintain the frenship with him/her.....cos if u use those methods, she may nt get it...and then it will be more hurting for her in the end...i tink best is dn involve other parties into the picture....

kopiosatu SG

let's make things easy
just say yes and try out the relationship.

please be reminded that this suggestion is coming from me.
kopiosatu
so it 100% bull

boy in blues SG

sorry sorry, got corrections. replace the above 'hate the guts of most' with 'cannot accept in a BGR friend'. we deeply regret for any inconvenience caused. Laughing

HystericalDustdevil SG

Twisted Evil yaya...I like ur idea there....but like that u're no diff than a wicked old witch...hehe...actually...I've tried this: tell the person she's quite good...too good to be ur lover..then tell her ur bad things...the things that she hated most...last but not least...tell her u're not ready for a relationship yet....ask to be her best fren 1st and try to construct a platinum frenship...tht'll be good for the both of u.. Wink I think...hheehe...nv saw the result yet...but guess the outcome would be like tht... Very Happy

Twisted Evil

Hitakogi SG

ya . i also agreed is SUPER DUPER 100% X infinity bull!
Mr. Green

Hitakogi SG

Razz finally someone agreed with mi Razz
hiaz thats the last outcum .. i try to avoid her 1st .. Rolling Eyes

millennium SG

I have not tried telling people straight. Normally just act blur or avoid.

HystericalDustdevil SG

well...still u can't avoid her for the rest of ur life rite??...if she's that ugly...I won't hesitate to suggest u to avoid her...but if not...hehehe...can still be frenz rite??u prefer to have one more ppl to hate u or to like u?? Mr. Green alth i'm wicked too...but sometimes...u have to think bout the consequences.... Wink

Twisted Evil

X-men SG

There's no way in rejecting someone yet not hurting them at all...
Agreed with Ah Ma, that if you don't like, make known to the person early don't drag cos the longer you drag the more hurting it gets.

One way I can think of is to distance yourself from the person slowly, when ask you out... don't go, show less interest in going out with the person, talk less with the person. If the person can feel the signal then things will be just fine without even having to reject cos the person won't even ask liao.

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