I don't really agree with you, I mean if both are really
'steady' , then everytime sweet nothins will seem very awkward loh.
Moreover, you girls also complain if we guys do it. Sometimes it is
really a 'Lose Lose' situation, where if we be sweet to the girl,
she might say we are not sincere, otherwise she will say we are not
caring enough. Just an opinion, no offence.
On a note I think mutal trust and understanding is what really
matters.