I am firm believer of the cane. When I was young, coming home
late meant the cane. My mum didn't have to sat down with me to talk
or cut my allowance or anything like that, just took the cane and
WHACK!
(Of coz, I am not saying whack until bleeding or almost want to die
liddat lah..)
Alot of kids possess too much freedom from their parents. Shouting
back at their parents? Norm. Showing no respect to the elders?
Norm. Kick a cat in the stomach? Norm. Blah, blah, blah. They need
the cane. They WANT the cane.
I believe bad parenting is caning the child until he bleeds and
then leaving him on his own. Merely just talk to him works about
the same as well.
My stance? Good parenting means caning the child, show him the
consequences of his actions, then have a meaningful talk with him,
show him the proper path and then forget the incident ever occurred
again.
So how would u discipline ur kids?
