hmmm....something my fren emailed..
Chance or Choice
When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right
place,
at the right time. That's chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted
to, that's not a choice. That's chance.
Being caught up in a moment and
there's a lot of couples who get together bec . of this is not
a
choice, that's also chance.
The difference is, what happens afterward? When will you take
that
infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the
next
level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and then
contemplate
whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just
a
fling.
If you decide to love the person, even with his faults, that's
not
chance. That's choice. When you choose to be with a person no
matter
what, that's choice. Even if you know there are many people out
there
who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and
yet,
you decide to love yo ur mate just the same, that's choice.
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true
love
that last is truly a choice. A choice that we make.
Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I
believe
is so true about this --"Fate brings you together, but it's still
up to
you to make it happen." I do believe that soulmates do exist.
That
there
is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make
the
choice if you're going to do something about it or not. We may meet
our
soulmates by chance, but loving and staying with our soulmate
is
still a choice we have to make.
