Personality and character changes as one grows older.. Immense
urself in cca, passion and mold your own character through
interaction with others.It is like learning to ride a bicycle. You
will fall a few times and slowly you'll get the hang of it. If you
don't try and dare to reach out, you will never learn how to ride a
bicycle.
I feel the key word is learn to accept urself as
who you are; with all its imperfections. How you treat yourself
reflects on how you treat others. If you want others to start
accepting you, you have to feel comfortable in your own skin and
accept yourself as whom you are.
I would say stop judging urself and start to nourish and encourage
urself positively. Love yourself unconditionally with all its flaws
and u will find urself change for the better... it works most of
the time.