noahnoah SG step if they will to be eyeing on a guy that they like? I mean in this Modern society ...Is it that Man still have to first to start the ball rolling? For women , just sit around and wait for the guy to take action ? Later miss the boat how ar?
Eiizumi SG Singapore girls are still conservative. Compare them to Taiwanese, you'll see the difference. I still love Singapore girls. So Singapore girls better jiayou. Singapore men also must be more outspoken and jiayou also. Both genders are F-up sometimes..
CoolMyth SG Like all Singaporeans, Singapore gals still value the value of face. They do not want to be seen as desperate by others if they approach guys when it's still the social norm for guys to do the approaching.
banzie SG Yea lah... Singapore girl very xiao jie one everything also must expect guy to do one.... I know of PRC... woah they are really hiong one... if they like you they tagged you then their words can see they like you... Singapore girl leh... kaoz its like they like you and yet they don't like that... Western girls are much opening lor... even if they don't love you they don't mind any friendship etc... Singapore girl leh.... fussy this fussy that... Even Japanese and Korean girls are more initiative than Singapore girls you be surprised... Japanese may be blushy etc etc shy... Its most of the time an act and habit or cultural thing than what is really happening... they have more initiative although appear to be shy. Japanese girls are mroe liberated than SG girls... Taiwanese and Hong Kies are also very acceptable to be make friend with... ALot of times especially Singapore girls particularlly pretty ones... even if you want to add their friendster they still want to choose... In the ang mo world all you need is a good pick up line..
Eiizumi SG No ones blaming the girl. Both genders should be do it first if they like someone. Cheers.
banzie SG Yea I think its easiest to find pretty gf in China... Pretty City Girls... they love Singaporean guys... Especially business people... When I go business trip I could have know a few if not for more religion. They think Singaporean guys are good people... but of coz we know there are also bad egg. And somemore girls in China are sometime much prettier due to the climate and fair skin.
starblue SG will you treat a gal differently if she approached you first, or if you approached her first? do guys really like a gal to approach them first?
banzie SG I wouldn't say all guys would like the girls for sure... but I tell you Majority of the guys don't have a thing in the brain... What comes for them and they see good they take.. Serious... Its harder for guys to go after girl than girls to go after guys... unless of coz this guy is really handsome or rich, or have some qualities to choose usually in a higher probability girls stands better chances. Girls particularly who knows the art of seduction works better. I used to have someone whom I didn't love at first but she got near me... we went out but it didn't end up well becoz of certain reasons. But if does eventually I think I'll stick to her also.
banzie SG Most guys when comes to love is like Homer Simpson... brainless one... so if a ok girls comes to him... Woah. bingo. Unless you are after someone like Leon Lie and you are not shuqi. personally I like a girl who has initiative lor... Yea an important quality. I want to live a advanturous life with my girl not a everyday comes home wife... Someone that match my level of craziness..
starblue SG like u have said. i think many girls here think that if they approached a guy first, then they can never be sure if the guy really likes her for who she is, or likes her just cos she made the first move... i think the mentality is this: guys will take any girl who approaches him as long as she is not horrible looking and he is not attached....
banzie SG Yes and no... if the guy likes you there are signs.... maybe you appear to be interested abit first. Then after which then you approach... During appearing interested, the guy will show if he is interested or just want to get attached.
ispyyy SG Sound like yr type of singapore gal (very xiao jie type leh) The guy just sit back and choose... lol... then, if u half like, half dont like, u just sit back and wait for the girl increase the bet , is it ??? :p
banzie SG Too passive no good... I guess its mutual... both side msut do something... if all the guys do... kaoz... guys also scare one leh... Girls do abit and guys do abit... bingo..
