meet up and talk it thru face to face.
worse come to worse. to agree that we disagree.
i disliked folks that keep banging the word 'misunderstanding'
around but dare not face up to 'misunderstanding'.
Its frankly wasting my life time with these people.
after some time, I just ignore them and wish them a better life
elsewhere, since they cannot manages the bare minimum that i can
handle.