What if ur guy asks u for money?

last SG · 2003-02-18T10:05:32+00:00

u v funny e way u say it.. ya i come across guys who sweet talk to my frenxs n ask them to lend him $ to pay n mod his bike all tis.. then can sweet tok the...

Ecxentrique SG

Just want to know comments from anyone with regards to the issue above...

The guy need not bluntly begs for money, but perhaps hints some financial difficulties. And say if the gal got money to lend and lend the guy money? Will it be weird?

Cos its very like in the tv serials where everytime these things happen, the guy usually is the baddie...

sgboy2004 SG

dun giv $$$, just giv your body, and remember to put a sign outside that says:

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Parka SG

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Parka SG

Depends on how much you are going to lend. Ask where your money is going to. It's YOUR money!!!

If he doesn't tell you the truth, then I think you can don't bother to lend him the money.

Just my opinions......

sgboy2004 SG

$$ is a sensitive thing lor...dun let $$ come in between u and him/her...it will be messy...mi c a lot of tis liao

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dark_slayer79 SG

ya but i dun think i able to accept the $ if i that guy Evil or Very Mad

Ecxentrique SG

Its about 3k to pay sch fees, and the guys family quite broke at first wanted to ask the gal to be a guarantor to secure a loan, but the gal then initiated the loan from her own savings..

how?

Master -_- SG

ya lor… girls giving money…eeeee

sgboy2004 SG

go for the loan, not her $$$...

tell her wat if they break off...somehow..then $$$ how?

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Parka SG

I think it boils down to the word 'trust' already. To pay school fees is quite a reasonable excuse...hmmm......

The gal and guy no special relationship??

sgboy2004 SG

i still think it is better to get a loan...

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Ecxentrique SG

[quote]Originally posted by sgboy2004:
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go for the loan, not her $$$...

tell her wat if they break off...somehow..then $$$ how?

The guy wanted to go for the loan, but have problems finding guarantors cos need two. Then he has no other frends who is working to help him out with this, then the gf is one of his 2 other close frends who is working.. then this gf refuse to be the guarantor, but chooses to lend him the money instead...

Parka SG

Yeah. That way more secure. Mr. Green

What I am scared is that later follow our advice the $3000 fly away then we will feel guilty.

Parka SG

One thing about lending money is the returning part. That's the most troubling part.

Ecxentrique SG

bf/gf relationship...

sgboy2004 SG

how about the guys' guardian?

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Ecxentrique SG

[quote]Originally posted by sgboy2004:
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how about the guys' guardian?

guys' guardian broke, dats y have to borrow from outside sources...

Devil1976 SG

For your information, I does that... But I never ask for a large sum and usually return within 1-2 months' time... And YES... I'm a BADDIE... ~WAHAHAhahaha.... Twisted Evil

^mm^ SG

if iz my bf & we've been 2gether for some x...will be ok Mr. Green

dark_slayer79 SG

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