any1 can ans my ques?

kb24 SG

hmm its like during gatherings etc,there r alwaes ppl hu can speak and every1 listens,whenever they joke ard ppl laugh.. but there r a few hu r alwaes left in the shadows,quiet and low profile.

y isit that some ppl,usually guys,hu can gain attention so easily and be the center of attraction,while some juz tag along for the sake of not being called a loner..mindboggling..

mhcampboy SG

Thats the wonderful thing about humans.

It will be a boring place to be if everyone is the same.

FireIce SG

cos every individual is different mah
character, personality......and oso the education they go thru, the environment they are brought up, the frens they have, the goals in life......

allentyb SG

depends on you look at it

maybe that guy fear of loneliness, thats why he likes to be in the centre of the attention or because he has an ego and wants to be alpha male all the times

and as for the rest, there is a saying - if you can't beat them, join them

by the way, is it your homework?

kb24 SG

hmm during these gatherings usually there r gers n guys. So being a guy,sometimes i feel so useless cuz i seem to be left out,its like i juz cant tink of anything interesting to say,much less gain any attention.

nt purely for the sake of knowing girls,but,how can i at least be noticed by them?

sunny6110 SG

when something went wrong... I blame myself most of the time...

it's up to u to make a diff...

if u say u hv nothing to talk abt... U needa read more.. then travel more... meet more pple and speak more... of coz some pple r borned wif tis gift...

if u dun hv... u needa work hard n no easy way out....

the.owl SG

some people introvert some extrovert what.

I'm the type who sit quietly in the shadows and smiling at how stupid everyone else is.

Rad SG

In the end…this belongs to Aunt Agony.

club18 SG

speak out more..
it wil do alot of good.. Laughing

caleb_chiang SG

This is life...

Can't expect everyone to be the same.

AndrewPKYap SG

and what is your question?

Nadare SG

Shocked Shocked Shocked

banzie SG

I am the attention most of the time…. becoz I hated been bored and love to make everyone enjoy the event… If the event is totally bored. I’ll sneak off from the back.

kb24 SG

then how do u be the attention all e time? what do u usually talk about?

gobez14 SG

u usualli tok about stuff that evrybodi has common interest and knowledge in but it's not veri good to be attention seeking.

True u may b popular but there r alwaes ppl hu thinks u r acting cute thus leading to the spreading of comments bout u.

Trust mi my class has tons of attention seekers they are humorous passing out witty comments but regardless of how ppl laugh at their puns, there are still some that might think otherwise

Ferret SG

i like being alone in the background.... Embarassed

Darkness_hacker99 SG

x2 me too.

Me is the supportive type de.. Embarassed