well i wld say the problems lies with both of them for not
having enough time to understand each other...when most of the
couples got in to relationship b4 marrying they are like metal
being welded together its hard to seprate them.
When they get married they are like magnets that cld stick together
strongly but also able to reple each side when not positoned
correctly. When married couples have their kid/s its like a piece
of material(u nv knw wad it is) between the magnets, the material
can make them stick closer or even drop both of them.
Problems with lots of couples nowadays has got the same
problems...its e.g time, work or lifestyle that causes it. Alot of
couples tot that afer marriage they expect their other half to be
like the girl or boy they knw b4 marriage.WRONG all human change as
time goes by...its jus that do u spend enough time to understand
each other, or to so call follow up each other. No 1 willl remain
as the sweet loving girl or boy u knw b4. U must knw how to change
with the othe "half" of ur life. Some simple things i do to "look
after" my relationship with my wife...ask ur other half "baby hv u
eaten?","baby hows ur work today?","baby u want a glass of
water?","baby u need a massage?","baby my work is having problems
in blah blah blah." There is lots of simple things to do to
understand each other better...ask urslf did u ever bother to do
thet b4 or didi u tot the "she can get him/herslf a drink if she
wants."
