Giving things to gals

Doenitz SG · 2003-02-17T21:48:36+00:00

Originally posted by Estee: so [b]BIG.......... =P[/b]

Doenitz SG

I have this so called "godsis" of mine.It was her idea to be godsiblings,not mine.To be able to progress to this stage means that we are more than casual friends.Ever since then,I have sent her cards,nothing expensive or fanciful,during any special occasions such as Christmas,New Year or her birthday.I was hoping that she gives me something for Valentine's Day/Friendship Day but nothing.So far,I have sent her a few cards,but I have not received anything in return.

I am sick and tired of giving all the time and not getting a bit of appreciation.

Yes,I know we should give without any expectations.But if you keep giving without any reciprocity,I think you will look stupid.Don't you think so? Neutral

xian89 SG

my "godsister" dun even say goodbye to mi when I left my sec sch Crying or Very sad

Flight Cadet Officer SG

giving but not taking. sometimes the recieving part doesn't need to be a tangible good.

she might be using you. i know some people like that. talk to you when they are lonely, when they are busy with their friends he/she just dump you one side like trash. sounds like spare tyre to me

mr_cool SG

The best is now don't give anything lor.. Mr. Green

mr_cool SG

haiz me also now facing the same ....but take it easlily and stingy alittle bit liao Mr. Green

Mazohyst SG

move on and save yourself the trouble.

www SG

simple. avoid having god-sis. Mr. Green

trouper SG

maybe she was busy with somthing eles

pimpless SG

or maybe she was busy with other 'godbrothers'
Twisted Evil

xavier1979 SG

Perhaps she doesn’t know you’d like her to reciprocate?

Doenitz SG

She only has me as her "godbrother."

If she can forget about it somehow,it just shows how little I mean to her as her so called "godbrother.".. I will never forget such things,birthdays,special occasions etc etc...

Now I have decided that I am not going to contact her anymore,I will wait for her to contact me.If no,big deal! Wink

Forever84 SG

You shld give something not in the spirit of wanting to recieve it back
Razz
Maybe she doesn't have that kind of spare cash

Parka SG

Yeah. Look at my signature below.

Estee SG

how about having a niece har uncle?? Laughing

Doenitz SG

Yes,I know we should give without any expectations.But when you have been giving for a while and you feel that your friendship has progressed beyond a certain level,when it comes to such occasions as Valentine's Day,you will surely be hoping secretly that you get something. Confused

Forever84 SG

wasn't valentine's day for couples
why would she give you something Laughing

Doenitz SG

You forgot that Valentine's Day is also so called "Friendship Day". Wink

frostysurfer SG

Sometimes godsis or stuff like that.. to third parties, it can be seen like… both of u re only there for each other when bored or lonely.. its something like hu(4) siang(1) li(4) yong(4). Its understood if u look at it in a more practical way but its logical right? So i believe in the first place, u shldnt put so much effort in it. U made urself look silly~ Why regret or have negative feelings like that when u have already decide to do it in the first place right?

Capricorn SG

Bro, to give is better than to take, always bare this in mind... dun expect anything in return, perhaps one fine day you would wake yo with the biggest surprise of your life-time. Razz

www SG

hahhaa. no need lar. nevertheless, i still give you things, rem?

rem the dust-collecting radio receiver? Laughing