in 1998, i decided to give my ex-bf a birthday surprise... I
spent a whole night making the card (including real 5 matchsticks
and rest - fake matchsitcks, totalling up 18 ) for the purpose of
lighting up candle on cake.
we met up each other with other 2 friends (come to my house
unpexpectly, darn it, wrong time) in bugis. we find a cafe to sit
down for a chat.. i ask my ex to wait for a while as i want to go
to toilet (actually, i collect the cake)..
after bought a cake, i walked behing him to give him a surprise
liao.
i help him to open a cake for him, looking for the lighter in my
bag. i dun have it, asking him hOw?
he dunno what to do as he dun expect the cake to be there
surprisely... i pass the card to him....
uopn opening the card, i ask him to make a guess which is 5 real
matchsticks... got 5 chances but if not, we have to "push" his face
onto a cake
...
sad thing, we break our 2nd year relationship for another guy who
come in to my life. 
really sweet to remember..