We were together since our college days, back in 1992...
ROM in year 2000 and customary last year...
It was never easy to run the marathon... 
She nearly left me when she just started working when she graduated
from U, I was then in year 2, got to know a group of friends, got
over active in school, neglected her. She got to know a colleague
in the office, told me about him but I too confidence of myself
that she won't leave me. At that time when we nearly breakup, she
told me that even without that gy, she might leave me also becos I
have neglected her and being insensitive to her... I beg her to
give both of us the chance to try once more, she agreed and I am
glad that I beg her to stay then... Well, that guy is her good
buddy now, she stilll meets up with him quite often, but I am no
longer that worried 
For me, I was tempted when I started working when I graduated. Got
to know this girl from office, a very sweet girl, got attracted to
her on the first day of work... as day goes by, got to know each
other better, often go out dinner or movies and she becomes a very
close buddy to me... I know that I really like her then and know
that she likes me too but we didn't say anything. It was till the
time before I am getting ROM that we confess our feelings to each
other... I made a choice then, I chose the one who go through my
college days, my NS days, my Uni days, sunshine and raining days...
Its was sad and heartbreaking for her... I didn't give in to her
though I know deep in my heart I likes her as much as my
galfriend.
Well, she attended my ROM and my wedding dinner, can see that she
feels sad but I told her that she will sure find someone better
than I am. We are still very close friends, she know that we can
never be together so why not just be buddies. Told my girlfriend
about it before our wedding, and I am so glad that she is matured
enough to take it.
Now me and my wife are happily married, don't know why, find myself
love her even more nowadays... no plans for kids yet, maybe another
2 years time, enjoy our "er ren shi jie" first 
Just my love story... 