january SG why is love mainly sweet only in the chasing and honey moon period? someone enlighten me pls i am single btw.. girl who is 20 plus can pm me.
ditzy SG Because the thrill is only in the game of getting it. Just like you see the N95, and tell yourself, OMFG i have to get that phone. And you get it, 3 weeks later, its just another mobile phone.
ArdusKane SG Because if someone says that they are content with every aspect of their life, you can slap him/her.
AndrewPKYap SG then slap me lah... not 100% and not all the time, of course... but generally, you can slap me
AndrewPKYap SG so true and the secret is? To know how to deal with that... something about transforming your mind... something about "emptiness" of existence... something about facing reality... something about dying to self and living for ... definitely can be done
Bontakun SG Misconception of 'love'. That is only superficial love. Not the kind you expect it to be. Everyone has their own views and mindset of what 'love' is. To some its what you have described as above. Find out more on what love is. There are many kinds of love. There will definately be a kind of 'love' that you will find most fulfilling and one that suits you the best and that love will show to the people around you what kind of a person you are. Beers! (Counter all those 'cheers' sign. )
untitledwav SG that's so not true. it's becoz that kind of sweetness you're talking about is romance, not love. love is both sweet and bitter, and it doesn't fade after the honey moon. if you want the sweetness, you must accept the bitterness. they're part and parcel of what love is.
AndrewPKYap SG no need for bitterness one lah... at least not 50/50 maybe 75% sweet, 20% neutral and 5% bitterness, after you are married is bad enough!
Patrik SG It's like playing soccer. Before the game,u are like so looking forward to it. FIrst half,u are still enjoying. But during 2nd half,u start to get tired,u run less,u seem to get the ball less. There is no more 'xin xian gan' When u dunno a girl,she is liek a mystery to u.U want to know everything about her. But when u know her already and everything,u get tired of her.She is no longer that appealing to u anymore.
