Damn, 9 years is not a short time.
I have never known or heard of a 9 year relationship which doesn't
end up in churches.
During these 9 years, have you ever cheated on her?
How many break-ups you had?
Why did you two break up eventually?
Is boredom one of the reason?
Could it be religion?
Did you two feel like brother and sister now?
What makes you so contented being with her for 9 years?
How bad was it when you two had the final breakup?
I am having a relationship with a girl that has been going for more
than 3 years now. She's a great girl, a saint, one with inner and
outer beauty. She's always there when I need her, and she loves me
so much she would trade anything for my well being (tested). I must
have broken alot of guys' heart when I start dating her. But I feel
that my love for her has been going down hill,... better still,
make it a 80 degree down slope. I still care alot about her now,
just that it is more like brotherly, family "care". She and I have
discussed this alot but never had we come to a conclusion. I feel
like I am taking her for granted by not loving her as much as she
does me. The big question that has been bugging me for the past
weeks, months, is: should I let her go for another guy? No doubt,
she will cry for weeks if i do that.
Your opinion will be very much appreciated, Mr. Trevor Loh, or
whoever who had been through or is having the same
experience.
How do you know if she's the one?!!
